Together with their families

Ben & Toria

September 20, 2026

Santa Cruz, California

How It All Began

It started, like many great things at Apple, with a whiteboard and a disagreement. Ben, a mechanical engineer with strong opinions about thermal management, and Toria, a hardware designer who believed elegance and function were the same thing, found themselves on the same product team in the spring of 2022.

They argued about tolerances. They debated material choices over cold brew in Caffè Macs. Somewhere between prototype reviews and late nights in the lab, the arguments turned into inside jokes, the cold brews turned into weekend hikes through the redwoods, and a mutual respect for precision engineering turned into something neither of them had spec'd out.

Ben proposed on a foggy morning along West Cliff Drive, with the sea otters as witnesses and a ring he'd spent three months designing himself — because of course he did. Toria said yes before he finished the question.

"We were always building something together — we just didn't know it yet."

The Celebration

Ceremony

The Chaminade Resort & Spa

One Chaminade Lane
Santa Cruz, California 95065

Nestled in the eucalyptus groves above the Monterey Bay, the ceremony will take place on the terrace overlooking the Pacific — where the redwoods meet the sea.

4:30 in the afternoon

Reception

The Chaminade Resort & Spa

The Sunset Ballroom
Santa Cruz, California 95065

Dinner, dancing, and celebration will continue into the evening in the resort's ballroom, with floor-to-ceiling windows framing the golden hour over the bay.

6:00 in the evening

The Day

4:00 PM

Guest Arrival

Welcome drinks on the terrace

4:30 PM

Ceremony

Exchange of vows overlooking the bay

5:15 PM

Cocktail Hour

Craft cocktails, local wines & appetizers

6:30 PM

Dinner

Locally sourced, farm-to-table dinner

8:00 PM

First Dance & Toasts

Speeches from loved ones

8:30 PM

Dancing

Live band & open dance floor

11:00 PM

Last Dance & Send-Off

Sparkler exit under the stars

Getting There

By Air

Airports

San José (SJC) — 35 min drive
Closest major airport

San Francisco (SFO) — 75 min drive
More flight options

Monterey (MRY) — 45 min drive
Small & scenic

By Car

Directions

From Silicon Valley, take Highway 17 South through the Santa Cruz Mountains — one of the most beautiful drives in California.

From San Francisco, take Highway 1 South along the coast for the scenic route.

Complimentary valet parking at the venue.

Stay

Where to Stay

  • Chaminade Resort & Spa On-site — room block available
  • Hotel Paradox Downtown — 10 min drive
  • Dream Inn Beachfront on Cowell's Beach
  • Pacific Blue Inn Boutique — walking distance to town

Will You Join Us?

Kindly respond by August 1, 2026

Thank You!

We can't wait to celebrate with you. See you in Santa Cruz.

Gifts

Your presence at our wedding is the greatest gift of all. For those who wish to honor us with a gift, we've registered at the following places.

Questions & Answers

What is the dress code?

Cocktail attire. Think elegant but comfortable — Santa Cruz is breezy in September. A light jacket or wrap for the evening is a good idea. Feel free to embrace color.

Can I bring a plus one?

Your invitation will specify the number of guests we've reserved for. If you have questions, please reach out to us directly.

Are children welcome?

While we adore your little ones, we've planned this as an adults-only celebration so everyone can fully enjoy the evening. We hope you understand.

Is there parking at the venue?

Yes! Complimentary valet parking will be available at the Chaminade Resort. If you prefer to self-park, there is a large lot on-site as well.

Will the ceremony be outdoors?

Yes, the ceremony will take place on the outdoor terrace. September in Santa Cruz is typically beautiful — mid-70s and sunny — but we'll have a covered backup plan just in case.

What is there to do in Santa Cruz?

So much! Explore the Santa Cruz Beach Boardwalk, surf at Steamer Lane, hike through Henry Cowell Redwoods State Park, visit the charming downtown shops, or take a sunset walk along West Cliff Drive. We highly recommend making a weekend of it.

When should I RSVP by?

Please RSVP by August 1, 2026 so we can finalize all the details. You can use the RSVP form on this site or reach out to us directly.

What's the hashtag?

Share your photos and memories with #WangToDoBeCousins — we can't wait to see the celebration through your eyes!